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Friday 31 October 2014

Letter to a hit-and-run driver. RIP Joseph Aidanemhen

A letter written to a hit-and-run driver by the brother of late Joseph Aidanemhen. So sad! Read below
I thought I should take a moment to let you know a little about the 'rising star' you brought to an abrupt end on Monday 27th October, 2014 at 1T4 junction, Ihumundumu road, Ekpoma. His names were Joseph Ighodalo Aidanemhen. He only just turned 20 earlier this year, and also just got admitted to study English at Ambrose Alli University weeks ago. He was the pride of everyone in my family, as he was the last-born thereof. Joseph was an intelligent, ambitious, confident and loving brother, who doubles as a son.
A week or two ago when he got that admission, we (including himself) were all excited and were doing everything possible to give him a solid start, but today, it is a different and opposite feeling altogether for everyone of us. He leaves behind an aged father, mother and the rest of us, whom are struggling to come to terms with his shocking demise. Do you know it was actually his first day at school to perform his clearance that you gave him the clearance of his life? Yea, it was. By the way, I learnt you were a woman. So, I want to ask; Do you have a child(ren) you labored to bring to life or plan having one? Do you have a loved one that you are ready to go to any lenght for? Do you feel fulfilled knocking him down and running away, leaving him to grow cold? I am not sure if the answers to these questions will come to me directly, but I am certain they will come to the Almighty Judge of All, The GOD of hosts!
Rgds
A soul in Pain"

158 comments:

John Collins said...

RIP Joseph Aidanemhen..

M Actually from Ekpoma

Bishop Dammy said...

No need for too much talk.. No peace for those that derive pleasure in being evil. Micah 2:1. BishopDammy#

Unknown said...

What a touching letter
May his soul rest in peace

And to the hit and run driver ur case dey baba God table idajo nla

Anonymous said...

Heartless woman..how do u sleep @ night? RIP Joseph

#king said...

Hmmmmm..R.I.P..She will suffer.............................#KingOfKings #6ixGod

Anonymous said...

May his soul rest in peace #bright bravo# 269beb21

Angie said...

Hmm, its sad!.. RIP to his soul; I believe he's in a better place.
God knows best and will reward all accordingly.

*My R1.50c comment*

Anonymous said...

So touching...... may his soul rest in perfect peace.

nneka stephnio said...

chai, RiP Dear

ujunwa said...

r.I.p dear

Unknown said...

Rest in peace joseph.....to even think dat d idiot is a woman! Chai! Na God go judge u.....

Bonita Bislam said...

Hmm a story for the conscience

nneka stephnio said...

RIP Dear

Unknown said...

It is well.rest in peace

Unknown said...

So sad! May his sould rest in peace..

#GodblessNigeria

OSINANL said...

So Sad...
RIP Joseph

nneka stephnio said...

RIP Dear

Anonymous said...

GOD will comfort you. I don't know u but am in pain

Anonymous said...

Rip dear. Very sad but the woman no try at all she was scared tho

Anonymous said...

I'm sure the woman didn't drove out of her house that day planing to hit someone and run...She was probably scared...& also there are alot of angles to these things...But out of respect for the dead! Let's leave it.....RIP Bro!

chenybaby said...

CHAI!MAY JEHOVAH CONSOLE YOUR FAMILY.ITS QUITE UNFORTUNATE.hmmmmm I WONDER Y SHE OR HE RAN AWAY?God i cant hold my tears.

nneka stephnio said...

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RIP Dear

Unknown said...

So sad.... This actually brought tears to my eyes. RIPP Joseph. One thing is sure, no one deserves the torment your family is going through. May the good Lord comfort you all.

Vivienne said...

Chai! nt gud at all.. R.I.P Joseph!!

nneka stephnio said...

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RIP Dear

Unknown said...

So so sad, may his soul rest in peace. And for the hit and run driver, God ll give u what u really deserve for this.
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Unknown said...

can't stop cryeing............ God will judge whoever she is, and may God have mercy on us all.

Unknown said...

Chai!!! can the culprit live with this weight on his conscience if she has one?

Unknown said...

So sad! May his soul rest in peace and for the hit and run woman , pls make restitution now before its too late, if only u had waited to take him to d chospital, he might had survived it, thou God knows d best, but it is more painful to d bereaved family to know dat u did not care for the life of their kid! It is well in Jesus' name

Unknown said...

Rest in peace.

Anonymous said...

Awww how sad...

Anonymous said...

Ehya realy sad

Anon said...

Oh My!!! May he RIP.

OMG!WOMAN said...

So sad... may his soul rip. Amen

Unknown said...

Painful. Heartbreaking
My condolence to Joseph family. May God grant them fortitude & strength to bear the loss

BORN TO SHINE!!!

WALE said...

MAY ALMIGHTY GOD CONSOLE AND GIVE YOU PEOPLE THE COURAGE TO BEAR THIS LOSS.PLEASE ACCEPT MY SYMPATHY .GOD WILL COMFORT YOU PEOPLE. I SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF

Elodie O. Mbape said...
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Elodie O. Mbape said...

Such a great loss. Take heart, dear. I can feel your pain through these words. I just pray and hope your family takes heart in the fact that he left a beautiful legacy behind. As for the hit-and-run driver, let's leave her in the cold hands of divine retribution. Blessings.

Babyboiynk said...

Sad

Anonymous said...

So sad .... what a great loss

Anonymous said...

got me crying.life is tooo short my.brethen lets serve GOD wholeheartedly.

Ara Kugbuokwa Gi Ngaa said...

Ewooo, Bros take heart oo, such is life. I know what it feels like. May his soul find peace in d bossom of our lord Amen.

endy said...

So sorry dear,May God grant your family the fortitude to bear the loss,,and Amen to your prayer

Jenny said...

So sad

Sisi Vales said...

So sad rest in peace Joseph. May God grant the family fortitude to bear this great loss.

Ijebugarrideysweet said...

Very Sad letter. That woman will never know peace. She can run but she can't hide from her guilt. May his soul rest in peace. Amen.

Anonymous said...

May His Soul Rest in Peace.

Anonymous said...

o God this is truly sad. pls take hrt dear. it is well. vengeance is d Lord's. May God give u and ur entire household the fortitude to bear d loss. Amen. RIP Joseph

Neeqilata said...

Omg I'm in tears. RIP to ur bro. May the driver never know peace in her life till she comes forth and apologise

Anonymous said...

This Hit and Run thing is now so rampant! I saw an accident last night, Thank God she didn't die...But what else after the state of those legs? she looked like her spine was even broken or sumfin. May God console the family of the dead

Unknown said...

chai.... may God console u all

Daralohi said...

R.I.P dear,the lord will not allow her to live peacefully and it is said if you kill by the sword,you will die by the sword.

Uche Emma said...


So sad.
Rest in peace Bro

Amaka.u.l said...

rip dear

Comr Amicable said...

RIP Joseph...its very sad buh God will judge whoever cut ur life short n decide to run away

Anonymous said...

the hit and run woman driver, you've heard it all, God will surely judge You.... rest in peace joseph

Unknown said...

Only God is d judge of mankind. So sad

Unknown said...

*tears* RIP

ary said...

This is the one time you can give a matchete to someone to take to his grave and haunt those who hurt him!

Anonymous said...

64I have lost someone dear and i know the feeling. May his soul rest in peace and as for the hit and run driver God will meet U.

edeone1 said...

So sorry for you loss

ary said...

But we know the reason motorists run when they hit someone is because they fear they will be lynched by the gathering mob.

Unknown said...

Hummmmmm!!!! God of mercy. Yuh actually have a lot to judge on dat faithful day.this is touching. #tearz in my eyez. Live on bro Joseph. Den as for the driver Hummmm speechless. Use ur tongue Nd count ur teeth. Whatsoever yuh did to sumbdy, sumone else were must do it for yuh.


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Anonymous said...

So sorry for your loss . But do u know some people cause road accidents for themselves ??. Every day I go to work people crossing d road (when there is a pedestrian brigde at the side) cross anyhow nd confuse drivers. Its so scary , esp if its a major highway.

Unknown said...

Hmmmm...sad

Anonymous said...

RIP

Anonymous said...

So sad, RIP Joseph.

Anonymous said...

WOMEN drivers are the worst on the roads. They are so rough on the roads. They always 'fight' behind the wheels for right of way as if somebody wants to 'collect' the road from them or cheat them.

GREEN said...

MAY HIS GENTLE SOUL REST IN PEACE
AMEN

Anonymous said...

It's well

Unknown said...

So sad, may his soul rest in peace.Such a wicked woman at least she should have waited

Unknown said...

So sad, may his soul rest in peace.Such a wicked woman at least she should have waited

Unknown said...

Awwww..this really got me crying, may the Almighty God give u and ur family the fortitude to bear the loss.

Anonymous said...

Very sad

Anonymous said...

Very sad

Unknown said...

OMG!

Unknown said...

Christ Jesus, #tearsflow# God wl surely judge r n may d soul of d dead RIP n God in His infinite mercy give d families n loved 1s d fortitude 2 bear d gr8 loss

elovi said...

Ehya rip so sorry

marcee immanuels said...

a woman actually hit and run? thats strange ...hmmmmmmmm hmmmmm

Seed of Beauty said...

Jeez so sad #Crying#

Unknown said...

Oh God! This is heartbreaking.

Unknown said...

really sad..May God comfort your family n for d killer, u can't go unpunished.

Ewatemi said...

SO SO SO SAD!

Anonymous said...

I feel for you brother. May his soul rest eternally.

lilyswt said...

Ehya I feel 4 dem shaaaa, it's so painful.may his soul rip.

Anonymous said...

Hey, this is so sad... RIP man

Anonymous said...

I could have followed my instinct by not clicking or reading this post.This just messed up my day.What a sad wicked day for the family.what a wicked selfish act madam.
REST IN PEACE JOE.
I can't even form the right word or what to say to his family that will bear the loss.I can only say i'm really sorry for the pain you are now.So sorry your parents have to bury their baby instead of the other way round.
As for the woman,for leaving him for death,may God judge you in his own way.
REST IN PEACE JOE.

LusciousBerry said...

May his gentle soul find rest in the bossom of the Almighty. So sorry for your loss dear brother. May God Almighty give you and your family the strength to bear his loss.

Unknown said...

ohh my God, i can't help but to cry for the innocent boi, so torching! may his soul rest in peace. and for the killer u will never have peace in ur life.

Julie Best said...

Chai I feel your pain my brother but God will heal your broken heart and console you and your entire family for this great loss, may the gentle soul of your younger brother RIP

Anonymous said...

So sorry for your lose, may his soul rest in peace and for the hit and run driver may God reward u

Unknown said...

oooooGod..... hit n run for small nd tight ihumudumu road?????? May d soul of d young man rest in peace.........
Amen

JOYCHY said...

Dis is really sad.....What a sorrowful write up!!!! RIP Joe & may God comfort ur family members!!

And 4 dat Hit & run driver/woman, may u never no peace. We really need 2 learn hw 2 take responsibilities 4 our actions, no matter d consequence....

Anonymous said...

My Dear Brother, Your words are deep. Accept my deepest sympathy. May God in his infinite mercy grant u and the family the fortitude to bear the irreplaceable loss.

Anonymous said...

so unfortunate n touching..rip.

JP said...

RIP Joseph. So sad.

ukbliss said...

Rip bro let Glasgow be the judge

Unknown said...

May his soul RIP

MADE IN NIGERIA said...

Awww....... so touching,may the almighty God grant him eternal rest

Anonymous said...

So touching. May his soul rest in peace. As for the woman remember that there is God and he will judge.

Unknown said...

May his soul R.I.P

Anonymous said...

so sad. may God give his family heart to bear the pain.

Jessica law said...

She will never know peace for taking another life and runing away.Rip joseph

Unknown said...

OOh, i shed tears while dropping this comment. My dear RIP. Battle is of the Lord's, that's all I can say.
I pray the Lord gives the people u left behind the courage to live on.

Anonymous said...

She will never find peace for as long as she lives. Cause the bible said there's no peace for the wicked. Leaving him there and running away shows u are wicked, heartless and inhuman. God will expose u. Rip joseph. may God almighty give ur family the fortitude to bear this painful loss. It's well
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Anonymous said...

Gosh..this is so sad.. Rip

Anonymous said...

Mehn I got chills... Sooo sad, are there good news anymore in Nigeria??#cheEzyjayne

Anonymous said...

Chaii. Wat a wicked world. RIP

Luvlyn

Anonymous said...

It's so touching, God would definitely judge the person. # In tears #

Anonymous said...

sigh...what a cold cold world. Smh. Rip...

Anonymous said...

Oh!!!
Woman,confess so that you will have peace.
May he RIP.

Anonymous said...

If you stopped to help him, you would be lynched. Sometimes mistakes happen. The worst thing is to show compassion and be mobbed by frustrated people.

Anonymous said...

Oh my God! So touching.

www.lifeasvira.blogspot.com said...

Awwww... Why would anyone do such a thing?
Really sad.
RIP

Unknown said...

May his soul rest in peace. Amen

Anonymous said...

Why run? she could have simply assisted the guy to the hospital. Who knows he might have survived. God help our country and our doubtful mind. Rip poor boy

getnnenna said...

Brought tears to my eyes.
so sorry for your loss.
Peace of mind will elude that driver.

Funkiedipsy said...

Dis is too sad knowing dats my town. May hs soul rest in peace.

Jim's Dw said...

Am so sorry for your lost, I know how it feels losing a family member... the Lord is your strength and the hit and run lady that left him so cold, how did u sleep datz night? Or how have u bn sleeping?
Because of the pain u have caused this family, May the soul of this young star u too away hunt u for the rest of your life and even when u seek help, they would never be a solution until u confess to the family because the boy isn't resting in peace and so would u before I won't right rip for on he's behalf.

vicky bee said...

*sobs* wat a cruel world we live in, Gods protection is wat we humans nid. Aside frm Malala Yousafis story, dis is d second 1 dat nearly brought me to tears....RIP bro

Anonymous said...

its a pity

Anonymous said...

Am just speechless... RIP to a fellow brother

Olori Amope said...

So Sad! RIP Joseph. May God console your family. Amen

snowflix said...

So sad and touching, God will pay her back in her own coin #onelovefromSnow#

Unknown said...

RIP dear brother

Anonymous said...

Jesus may the Lord have mercy upon her and may his soul RIP awwwwwwwwwwwwww

Unknown said...

So sad may his soul rip

Anonymous said...

RIP

Anonymous said...

Bro, i feel ur pain. Take heart, God knws d best. RIP to d dead bro!

distin said...

What a painful loss......May God console his family.......

Ann Chetachukwu Ubah MD said...

This letter made me cry..take heart dear. Your late brother is in the Lord's bossom

Anonymous said...

So sad,my mum was telling me about it on Wednesday morning,she knew the aunty to the boy,she noticed the aunty didt open her shop as about 10 0 clock and she had to call her and ask why,then she told my mum what has happened. Am so shocked seeing and reading about it now. May his soul rest in peace.

Anonymous said...

Am very sirry ,may his soul rest in perfect peace.

Unknown said...

I feel so bad now. May his soul rip

Anonymous said...

Sad indeed. May God console d family.

Anonymous said...

Same thing happened to my lil cousin last month in Niger state. R.I.P

Anonymous said...

Some human are so cruel,,sad...live On#GiftedDiva#

Anonymous said...

The same ting happened to Dimgba Igwe. Hit and run driver. D drivers must ve run out of fear of being lynched, but they could ve turned themselves in at the nearest police station.

Anonymous said...

The Heart Of Men Are Full Of Venom,,Live On#GiftedDiva#

APPLE said...

Oh dear oh dear, this reckless driver won't go unpunished. R.I.P to the dead. This letter is sooooo deep.

Anonymous said...

True that

Subomi said...

RIP .. very sad

Anonymous said...

I can only imagine how devastated the family must be but I urge them to take heart and forgive the driver. Like Anon 2.10 above said, she was prolly scared of reactions out of order by passers-by and/or the police. Please stay strong for your parents. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Anonymous said...

Abi nah u?

Anonymous said...

This is sad but as I wasn't there, I can't judge. Even if the guy had been at fault by recklessly crossing, a mob might still have lynched the woman. What she should have done is called the police and gone back there.

Anonymous said...

As sad as this is and even sadder that it was a hit and run. Its like their son has passed but still they have no closure. But I will blame the hit and run on govt!! Who have not deem it fit to stamp out this craze of jungle justice. If the woman stopped chances are she will probably have been leached to death. Stop jungle justice let the law take its cause.

Rouno said...

So touching , may his soul rest in perfect peace

globaldeji said...

Am not shocked it happened in Edo state. That state has lots of insane folks on the loose

Ehitz said...

1T4 junction is a very sharp bend on that road in Ekpoma, any driver approaching it ought to slow down. RIP

Anonymous said...

what a pity . RIP

Anonymous said...

RIP

Anonymous said...

RIP dear . is so touching,but d guy migt b at fault mayb he didn't watch b/4 crossing d road and d driver might run to save his/her self b/4 d mob wil eat his/her up. I m not ther wn it happend so I can t say much, joe family pls take hrt and excpt it as God 's wished. I lost mydear frnd chukwuemeka almost d same way,he is nice ,humble,intelligent ,caring ,kind,lov of evrybody in d family evn outside his envr ,church and in sch,abt to go youth service on oct /nov ,he died through dat furious accident. Wn we lost our dear ones in a callous way it hurt down d hrt. Esp d youth. I felt ur pains ,so take hrt .
Cynchizmon

Anonymous said...

Funny you. No be me.

AGB said...

Rest in the arms of God young man. God Bless your soul. Amen.

Anonymous said...

Drive not drove

OMG!WOMAN said...

She should have ran to the police station and return with some police men at least.

Anonymous said...

I know of someone that stopped to help a person who was hit and left to die and got beaten to an inch of his life. What did he gain from being good? a broken rib. Nobody prays to be a victim of circumstance. This is Nigeria that will not even let good poeople be good. May God help us all thatw e do not find ourselves in unfortunate situations. RIP Joseph.

Unknown said...

He is my small uncle and I will always keep him close to my heart. He will never be forgotten. I miss you Joseph.!!!!

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